The Western Curse of Feminism

I believe that while some aspects of feminism in the west may have helped women
in certain ways, I also think that western society has suffered from it. The
unintended consequence is a nearly 50% failure rate in marriages, an appalling
statistic.

With these kinds of unfortunate failures, many men think
that the solution is to head to the Philippines and marry a
"submissive" Asian woman. They have a “mail order bride”
mentality, believing that a Filipina will do anything for the
man who rescues her from poverty.

These men are surely mistaken. Just forget everything that
you have been told about subservient Filipino women who
are “trained by their mothers to serve men.” This is just a
myth. If you think you can find a Filipina who acts like a
docile little lady that only speaks when spoken to, and bows
and calls you “Master,” sorry mate, not going to happen.

Me Tarzan - You Jane

While Filipina's are not the submissive type of woman that some men have been led to
imagine, they are, however, happy being ladies. They won't want to swap gender roles with
you, and aren't going to be making radical feminist-inspired anti-male put-downs; they want to
marry a man who is a man!

You will find that Filipina ladies are non-confrontational, if they are treated kindly and with
respect. They are good cooks, will clean the house, and take wonderful care of her husband and
children. She will happily take care of you as a loving and feminine wife does, but expects to be
taken care of in turn by a strong man who will protect and support his family.

However, don’t think that you can act like a tyrant or a King in his palace and get away with it.
In contrast, don’t act like a “metrosexual” style spineless wuss either. If you’re a strong good
man, who is a loving, kind, faithful, devoted family man, a good provider, and treats them well,
most will stick by you and treat you with the respect that a good man should have.
Respect must be earned and it must be deserved. If you’re lazy, cheat on them, are a bad
parent, treat them with a lack of kindness or are violent, they will very quickly lose respect for
you.

Harmony

My wife and I have tremendous respect for each other, and for each other’s unique abilities and talents. When one of us is weak or in need the other will be strong. I take care of the men-things, and she takes care of the woman-things. I don’t put on the apron, and she doesn't put on the overalls. She spoils me rotten, and I spoil her rotten. 

We would be lost without each other, and that’s how it should be. Find the right Filipina lady, and you have found the perfect partner and wife.